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Yo what's up hope everyone is doing good. This last week was for sure the best week that I've had in the last couple of months. We had a few bigger highlights, but honestly some of the main highlights of the week were just interactions with cool people on the street. So here's some of the highlights:

I'm not sure if I'v mentioned it before, but my current area covers many other surrounding cities; a bunch of smaller cities, and then 2 other main "big" cities besides our own. The original reason that the area I am in was even opened up earlier this year was for the purpose of being able to cover all 3 that we do since we don't have enough missionaries for there to be missionaries in each area. But, that was our previous mission president who opened it with that purpose. Our new mission president doesn't like us spending much time in those for some reason, so we are told to not spend too much time in them. The only reason for me explaining this is because this week we ended up going to both of them, Ålesund and Kristiansund, because we had messaged people on Facebook who were interested in meeting up, so we had a reason to go. 
-     Wednesday we were in Kristiansund, which was for sure the highlight of the week. We had 3 people that we had met on facebook who wanted to meet up. All three meetups actually ended up happening (a lot crazier than you'd think), and all went pretty well. The first was a super short guy from the Congo named Bahati, who kept saying "Hi zach welcome Zach" for a minute or so after we met each other😂. We didn't have too long of a conversation with him because he literally just met us at a bus stop between his 2 work shifts, but we were able to give him a Book of Mormon and have a good conversation about his life. The second was a guy named Aime, also from Congo, but a lot closeor to our age. He thought it was really cool that we speak English and is excited about the possibility of learning English through meeting with us. We met him at the library and after he "approved' of us I guess, he said we could then go over to the cafe and talk for longer😂. He was just a super kind and wholesome guy though, and we were also able to give him a Book of Mormon. The last was probably the best, which was a girl that is around our age as well from Congo/Uganda. We met her at a resturant, and it felt pretty casual for most of the meetup and I was unsure if she was at all interested in our message. But when we asked if we could share with her more about our church, she quickly said yes. We explained the idea that Jesus Christ's church needed to be restored, and we believe it has been through Joseph Smith. When we asked her if she thought that could be possible, she said, "yeah, probably like 99%." So that was pretty cool. In many aspects the work has been slow for us, so to have 3 lessons all happen and all go well in our half of a day in this city, it was pretty exciting.
-     On Thursday I was on splits with one of my former companions which was fun. But we went to the other of the 2 cities I was talking about, Ålesund (which I think is one of, if not the coolest city I've seen in Norway). The highlight of that day was a meeting we had with someone else that we met via facebook. She was also from Congo/Uganda. Over messages she had told me she was wanting a Bible, which we gave to her. But I was a little nervous how open she would be to our message and the Book of Mormon. But she gladly accepted a Book of Mormon and seemed to like the message that we shared with her. She was also just a super super nice lady though and asked to take a picture with us as we were leaving. The other thing we did while in Ålesund was meet with a couple from France, and their 2 week old baby, who have only been in Norway for a month or so. They are Muslim and we helped them to learn some basic Norwegian, which they requested. They were also incredibly gracious and kind to us, and were super thankful for the help that we gave them. 

As I said, the rest of the highlights of the week were mostly just little interactions on the street with cool people, so here's a few of those:
-     I stopped a lady from the Phillipines who was very nice. As I began to explain the Book of Mormon, I told her I unfortunately had just given out the 2 that I had with me, which she seemed surprisingly dissappointed about. But I got her number and told her that I could give her one another time. Well a few minutes after I tallked to her, I went up to my companion (we were talking to seperate people) and asked if he had a Book of Mormon with him. He gave me one that he had, but by this time the lady I talked to was long gone. But for some reason I just decided to start running in the direction that she was walking to give it to her. After running for a few minutes I caught up to her and was able to give it to her. She hasn't replied since this interaction, but was still a cool interaction nonetheless.
-     On Saturday, right when we walked out on the street I passed these 2 girls and felt like I should talk to them, but didn't. So when I saw them again about 30 minutes later I went out of my way to talk to them. They were definitely younger than I thought they were before I started talking to them, but I still had a short conversation with them and gave them a Book of Mormon. I got one of their facebook's, but after walking away realized that it didn't work. Since I had already ran into them twice, the rest of the time on the street I was hoping to run into them again. Well, probably about an hour later, I ended up talking to a lady that ended up being there mom, which was crazy. And apparently I had actually already talked to her a few weeks earlier but didn't remember initially. She seemed a lot more interested than her daughters, and gratefully took a Book of Mormon. And when I got her number she made me call her so she could save her number too (that never happens). We haven't met up with them left but I am hoping we will be able to soon.
-     That same day when we were out talking to people, I started talking and walking with this lady, and ended up walking with her pretty far all the way over to the ferry station. She is from the same country as one of my favorite people I've taught on my mission from my last area (burundi). She was super super nice and was very gracious in the text reply that she sent us the night after I talked to her. We also haven't met with her again yet but I am hopeful we will be able to soon as well.

As of late I have been a bit frustrated with myself and my inability to complete goals that I have set for myself and just in my overall lack of discipline as of late. But with that being said, the peace that I have felt from certain gospel principles, scriptures, hymn lyrics, and conference talks has been a different type of comfort that I haven't really felt before. When we are frustrated in our failures, I think it is easy to continue in that direction and lose motivation to brush it off and try again. Because ultimately, that would be what is easiest; that is what Satan wants us to do. One thing that I feel has been impressed upon me as I have thought about this, is that that peace, comfort, and inspiration that I mentioned is always available to us. It comes from Jesus Chist, and it is the antidote to the frustration and lack of motivation that I also mentioned. BUT, we need to make the concious decision to include that inspiration in some aspect of our days and lives, especially when we feel discouraged. When we make the conscious decision to invite the spirit into our days, we allow ourselves to bounce back from our sins and pains, and to feel Christ's power in our lives. I love this representation of such from the Book of Mormon: 
Alma 43:48 And it came to pass that when the men of Moroni saw the fierceness and the anger of the Lamanites, they were about to shrink and flee from them. And Moroni, perceiving their intent, sent forth and inspired their hearts with these thoughts—yea, the thoughts of their lands, their liberty, yea, their freedom from bondage.
Just as we often have the tendency to, the men in Moroni's army felt the temptation to "shrink" and "flee" from their trial. Moroni gave them "thoughts" that he knew would "inspir[e] their hearts". I think we all know the specific thoughts and things that give our own hearts and  minds inspiration and peace, it is just up to us to turn to those things in our difficult moments, especially when we don't have someone like Moroni looking out for us.

"Yes we stray
From the light that is paving our way
They say there's no going back
I'm reaching out
To the arms of a Savior"
-Emma Nissen

Week 61

Sunday, October 27, 2024



Heisann, 

Hope everyone is doing good. Surprisingly had actually a very eventful and good week which was good. Definitely my best week in a like 6 or 7 weeks.

Tuesday and Wednesday were my last 2 days with my companion that I struggled quite a bit with. We weren't even together for an entire transfer because this last transfer was a bit shorter, and we switched for a week, but it still felt like quite a while lol. He's a great and energetic guy, but I'm glad to have a bit of a fresh start in this area. For his last days in the area, he just wanted to visit our few amount of members here (we don't really have any friends for him to say goodbye to lol). So on Tuesday we were out at house of one of our members all the way until like 5, eating with him, and also doing a bunch of service for him, and then headed straight from his house to the house of some of our only other members here and had dinner with them. And then the following night we were at the actual only other members house lol. But we don't get much member interaction in this area so it was a good few days. 

Wednesday we picked up my new companion, and then the next morning at 5 am we dropped off my old companion at the airport. We went back to our apartment and slept for a little longer, and then woke up and immediately drove 5 hours to a city called Sogndal that is southeast of us. Our area is huge, so that is technically considered our area. But the reason we went down there is because one of our friends that we are currently teaching over the phone lives there. And, we also went to go and visit a guy that was baptized when I was in my first area, who I would consider a very closer friend now. He has been living in that city for 2 months doing school there. He has been doing school there and has been struggling a lot. It was so good to see him; it's been like 8 months. It was also really good to meet our friend Rebecca in person after calling her so many times. She was so nice as always, and even made us some Rwandan food which was very good. The lesson with her was a bit frustrating but it was good to be with her. We also visited the only other member that lives in that city after we were done at Rebecca's, and she gave us dessert. It was great to talk to her as well. Overall it ended up being probably one of the best days of my mission honestly. 

On Saturday we also had one of my favorite days in a while. Or at least one of my favorite interactions since I have been in this area. I mentioned in my last email that I met 2 African parents of 2 seperate families at the bus station. Well on Saturday we were able to go and visit one of them. They were about a 50 minute drive from where we are at and live in a quite remote area. But it was just such an awesome visit. Right when we pulled up in their driveway, the dad literally ran out the house and said "Welcome my brothers Welcome!" and ran and shook our hands. His 4 year old daughter also instantly ran up to me and shook my hand. I've gotten so used to Norwegian hospitality, especially by Norwegians that don't want to see us, that it was so refreshing and kind. He has 4 kids (6, 4, 2, 4 months), and they are some of the cutest kids I've ever seen. Especially his 2 year old son was super super funny. His wife spoke basically no English or Norwegian, but was also very kind to us. We just sat and talked with them for a while about being in Norway, and then about the Church of course. His wife comes from a very Christian background, and he comes from much less of one. So he really liked everything we said but I'm not sure understood the magnitude. But he was translating to his wife and she was asking questions through him to us, and was smiling at all of our answers. He said he literally would've came to church the next day, but he doesn't have a drivers license and the bussses don't run much on Sundays. He asked us to pray for him to get his drivers license. If all of you could please pray for Rashid to get his driver's license😁!

Today we went to the other of the 2 African families we met at the bus station. There was a language barrier which made it difficult to teach much of anything (even though she kept insisting she could understand us...). But they were also incredibly nice. They have 7 kids, and 4 of them were there and were all also very nice and friendly. I'm not sure if they'll be quite as open as Rashid and his family because they already go to a 7th day adventist church here, but I hope we can actually at least share the message and have them understand it next time. Nonethless though, both families are easily my favorite people I've met here in this city. 

One thing I have been pondering a lot lately is how I can better show love to those I interact with, especially those that don't want to hear our message or people of other faiths and backgrounds. I've felt more and more that that's the way that missionary work should be done, but at the same time have doubted myself because I am of course here to share the gospel. I went into general conference with this question in mind, and I feel like--for the most part--the message was repeatedly that we need to increase in love for those around us and find opportunities to show love. Of course we share the gospel anytime we have the opportunity to, but I personally feel that showing love to those around us helps them know Christ more than anything else. I really liked an experience that Elder Casillas shared during conference which expands further upon what I am trying to say, "On this occasion we did not give a big sermon or share our favorite scripture, but the Lord blessed us with His Spirit abundantly...There will always be someone you can help feel the love of your Heavenly Father." I really love his emphasis that sometimes a spiritual message isn't what someone is most in need of; being there for each other and showing genuine love is often what is most needed and most important. 

"Compassion over indifference"
-Loyle Carner

Week 60

Tuesday, October 15, 2024

Hva skjer,

My days and weeks are starting to show little signs of picking up in this area, which I am grateful for, and I'm hoping it continues to trend in that direction. We had a pretty solid week though. We weren't able to drive this week, which restricts a lot what we can do in this area because of how big our area is, so were expecting it to be a bit of a rough week, but it ended up being probably the best since I have been here. Hope all of you are good though and enjoyed conference if you watched it. 

This week for me was mostly just filled with a lot of small wins. But with how the last few weeks have been and how this area is they felt big. Because of how missionary work naturally works, I personally try and not get too excited about most of the things that are of the magnitude of this last week for me, because they often fall through, but they still made the week itself more enjoyable nonetheless and gives us some things to hope for. Here are some of the wins of the week for me though:

-About a week and a half ago, after walking out of a lesson, we were waiting in the bus station in order to take a bus to go and knock some doors. While we were waiting, my companion got up and went to the bathroom, and while he was in the bathroom, what looked like a couple and their daughter came in. I heard them speaking a different language so I asked what it was and we got started talking. I quickly figured that they weren't married to each other but each had their own spouse and family with a lot of kids here. We gave them both Book of Mormons and got both of their numbers, and they both said that we could come back for a visit. 
-After knocking doors basically every day for the last 5 weeks, we were finally able to get into someone's house to teach them a little bit. It was a brazilian couple that has lived here in this city for 5 years. They were not really at all interested, but were super respectful and let us share the entire message we wanted to share, and even asked genuine questions. They also gave us homemade apple juice, beef jerky (from the US cause it's not here), and some brazilian candy as we left. Not anything that is going to affect our future weeks here or get anyone baptized or anything, but was a really genuine conversation and visit I really enjoyed.
-The language cafe we go to in the library here every week is always one of the highlights of my week to just be able to talk with the nice old norwegian ladies that run it. But to add onto that, this week we were able to talk with 2 people that were interested in talking with us more about the gospel at the language cafe. Since then it doesn't seem either are incredibly interested, but it was a good win in the moment. 
-Random interaction I had while street contacting. I still do a lot of work on Facebook trying to meet new people as I have my whole mission. Because I'm a random person just messaging people, it's not incredibly uncommon for me to get blocked, which makes total sense and I don't blame anyone that does. Well, this week I ran into a guy on the street that had blocked me after a short conversation on facebook. I just walked up to him and said that I had messaged him on Facebook, and he instantly recognized me and pretty earlier into the conversation apologized for blocking me. He is a very very nice guy from Nigeria though, and we had a really long conversation on the street, and he is interested in meeting with us again. 

We had some more time consuming stuff that we did with members or previously taught friends this week, but the things that I just listed were for sure the highlights and the things that brought the most joy into my week. As well as watching conference :).

After having basically a month of a lot of work that seems like it is a waste of time or isn't doing anything, this last week with a lot of smaller wins, many of which were spontanious, made me realize that our successes in life, especially as a missionary, have very little to do with what we do and everything to do with the Lord and His will. Our job is to do everything we can to live righteously and help those around us, and then to trust the Lord, even if what happens is not what we had hoped, planned, or expected. I really really loved Elder Soares's talk from last week about this topic. Aligning our will with God's is one of if not the biggest challenge and journey of life. I loved many parts of the talk but I especially liked when he said, "One of the most glorious moments of mortality occurs when we discover the joy that comes when doing always those things that "work for and please the Lord" and "what works for us" become one and the same!" Not only does aligning our own will to God make him happy, but it also gives us joy beyond anything else. I have also felt that it brings a peace that can't be attained otherwise. When we trust in God and His plan so immensely, our worries about our own wants fade and we are blessed with a strong sense of peace. 

"We must not question the Good Lord
Have faith in God and trust his word...
That's how the Good Lord works"
-Sunday Service Choir

Week 59

Saturday, October 12, 2024