SOCIAL MEDIA

What's up,

Outside of a little bit of travel, was a pretty average week for us. Not fantastic but not horrible, so I guess can't complain. Hope all of you had a good week and are doing alright. 

As I said, we started off the week with some travel. Even though it was only the first week of our transfer, we had zone conference this week so that we could have one more zone conference with our current mission President before he leaves this Saturday. We headed to the airport Wednesday morning for our flight that was supposed to be at 10am, but when we printed off our boarding passes for the flight it said our flight was leaving at 5:25. We had tried to get on a few earlier flights, but ultimately we ended up being in the airport basically all day. Our flight at 5 only took us part of the way to the city we were going to as well. At that point, our connecting flight then got cancelled so we were in the airport even longer, just in a different airport. We finally ended up arriving after 9, which made us miss all of that night of the zone conference. Which was annoying but it is what it is I guess. The zone conference the next day was super awesome. There were definitely some emotional parts with it being our current mission President's last. I have a huge amount of love and even more respect for him, and I am pretty certain that is how basically every missionary in the mission views him. Definitely is super sad to see him go, and definitely a bit scary to see how the new one will be. 

We ended up flying back on Friday morning, and right when we got back we went home and changed our clothes and then jumped right back in the car and headed out to help work on the farm of one of the member's in our branch. She currently has 2 farms, and has now decided to sell one of them, so there is a lot that needs to be done to clean it up and such so that it is ready to be sold. I'm honestly not sure she fully knows what she is doing, but we just show up and do what she tells us and I'm glad we can be of any help to her. We ended up being there for like 6 hours. The first few hours of that was literally just dumping rotten potatoes out of a bunch of crates down a hill, and then scrubbing down all of the crates. Which was actually so nasty because a lot of the potatoes had just become mush and literally just smelled like dog poo bruh. The last few hours we set up makeshift tables with the washed out crates, and then just put a bunch of random stuff she has and wants to sell out on the tables. I'm not joking when I say I could have made fun of basically every single item I grabbed. Not sure how the selling of most of those items is going to go, but once again, just happy we can help her in any way she wants us to. 

Between Saturday and Monday we had 3 appointments with Muslim guys. Until the last few weeks, I haven't discussed faith with Muslim people much at all, so it has definitely been interesting and enjoyable in many aspects. Obviously it is not the absolute best when we are looking for people who are interested in learning more about Jesus Christ, His gospel, and His church, but I am still grateful for the conversations I had with all of these guys, and that I have had with Muslim people over the last few weeks. All 3 of the guys are people who are just interested in learning about our beliefs for the purpose of being educated on many different religious perspectives. All three guys were very friendly and respectful. Unfortunately one of the appointments was not very respectful, as this random guy that knows that missionaries in this city walked up and just sat down and joined one of the appointments, and then proceeded to just argue with us and bash us and not let the guy we were meeting with ask any questions. But besides that all of the appointments were all very friendly, even if the people are not interested in growing a relationship with Christ. 

The highlight for the week for me in terms of missionary work was an appointment we had yesterday. It was with the guy I talked about last week that came to church and after the first time meeting with us said he wanted to start meeting 2 times a week. He didn't reply to us for the whole first half of the week so I was pretty convinced that he was just done with us because I'm pretty used to that as a missionary, but he ended up texting us back towards the end of the week, and then after more inconsistent replying we were able to meet up with him yesterday. Man is he a rambler, but it was still enjoyable. I looked over and my companion was just completely asleep after all the rambling haha. But within the rambling he said some cool stuff that makes me hopeful and excited about teaching him. He explained how he grew up going to church with his family and such, but how he never knew it was true for himself or had a personal relationship with God. He told us the only times he remembers praying in his life was when he was trying to get a highly coveted job or get into a prestigious university. But now, after he has completed university, he said he has a "craving" to grow his personal relationship with God and gain the power that comes from that. Always really cool to hear stuff like that. We couldn't get in many words, so I knew whatever I was to say had to be worth something. I was really trying to listen to the spirit and think about what would be best to say, and all that was popping in my head was the Book of Mormon, so we explained that to him and how it can be a blessing in his life. We plan to meet with him on Friday to keep up with the 2 times a week he wants :).

I struggled thinking of any sort of spiritual thought this week. With that being said, I tried to break it down very simply in my head to what the biggest thing I learned in the last week was, or even what one significant thing was that I learned in the last week. And I think this week that came from our zone conference. There were definitely a few different themes of the conference, but I feel like one of the big things was just an overall motivation to be diligent and be intentional in every single thing we do. Our mission President's presentation was about "checking your form" and "assessing your drift", things that I think are so applicable to average everyday life and not just missionary work. I think it honestly just comes down to being aware of yourself as a person and your current state and progress in the many areas in your life. If we are able to be humble and notice that we are slipping or "drifting" in certain areas, we are then able to make the needed adjustments to be back on track. Like I said, I think this is very applicable in every area of life, but I think it is especially applicable spiritually. President Nelson, as well as other church leaders, have talked repeatedly about the idea of spiritual momentum, essentially making sure you are always having positive spiritual growth rather than negative spiritual regression. That is a concept that I feel I have experienced personally since I have been on my mission. I've personally come to know on my mission that you are always in one of two camps when it comes to your spirituality: growth or regression. I personally don't believe there is much of an in between. Obviously in our imperfection, we simply are not always going to be in a state of spiritual growth, but I think it is important to always be intentional in our strive for that. For whatever reason, I feel like I have not had a lot of spiritual growth in the last month or so. When I think about a solution for this, I think about the small simple actions that take place in my day to day and how related or unrelated those are to Christ. It doesn't directly connect, but I love the application of this quote to this topic: 
"Good habits are not acquired simply by making good resolves, though the thought must precede the action. Good habits are developed in the workshop of our daily lives. It is not in the great moments of test and trial that character is built. That is only when it is displayed. The habits that direct our lives and form our character are fashioned in the often uneventful, commonplace routine of life. They are acquired by practice"
To me, this connects in the sense that as we change small actions each day to be more focused on Jesus Christ, or simply just to be slightly more diligent in whatever area of life it is, that we can then build strong momentum and avoid regression and drift. I'm not sure how much of anything I wrote just made sense, but simply put, my goal for myself this week is to be intentional in what I am doing in the small moments of freetime each day. Am I doing something that is productive, or building my relationship with Christ? Or is my time being wasted on something that is not a good use of time? I think when we can all ask ourselves that question, we can begin to have growth in all areas of life. It's easier to see growth by having 1% improvement in numerous areas rather than a large percentage of improvement in only one area. 

Lyric: "Besides I'm never giving time to what doesn't matter"
-Kofi Stone

(The pics of the overview of the city were at midnight😃)

Week 44

Tuesday, June 25, 2024

What's good,

Finally a week that was a little bit more relaxed and normal for me. Hope everyone is doing good and had a good week.

On Wednesday I said bye to the companion I had had for the last 3 months Elder Woolley, and got a new companion Elder Nielsen. I've been blessed, for the most part, with really good companions that I get along with really well so far on my mission. Me and Elder Woolley got along really well and it was definitely sad to say bye to him. Just like Elder Woolley, Elder Nielsen was also in the MTC at the same time as me, and we get along really well. We've already been having a lot of fun together so I'm looking forward to this transfer for sure. 

This was my first week in a while where the entire week was actually in my area lol. But because of that we were actually able to schedule some appointments and we had some good meet ups with some good discussions. Quick recap of some of those:

-Met up with another dude that I found on Facebook. He is from Rwanda and has lived in Norway for about 6 years now. When I have first meetups with people, it is always different how much we talk about religion and how quickly it comes up. With him we were talking surface level about religion a few minutes in as he is Muslim but currently not really practicing, and as soon as I asked him about prophets we then started an over 2 hour deep discussion about Islam, Christianity, and our church of course. He was very interested in the Book of Mormon and Joseph Smith, and just the concept of the Restoration of the church. He even said that he would be open to praying about both things and their truthfulness. But, at the same time he was saying that he would never lose his belief in Islam. Which is obviously fair, but I can't really agree with him on the fact that you can believe in both Islam and Christianity at the same time, or at least fully😂. He said if he figures out that the Book of Mormon is true he has a problem, because then that contradicts the Muslim belief that Mohammed was the last prophet. Regardless of his beliefs, he was super nice and he wants to meet with us again so I'll be looking forward to that.

-On Saturday we had another appointment with our friend that we met with last week, who has met with missionaries for a long time. I mentioned last week, but it has been like over a year since he has met with missionaries consistently. Because my companion was different from the lesson last week, we had a similar lesson, kind of just seeing where he is at. It was super cool. We basically talked for like 15 minutes about all the obstacles in the way of baptism and becoming a member (his parents especially, coffee, alcohol, and being looked down on in the community here) where me and my companion really tried to empathize with him the best we could. It really is so hard to become a member of the church in general, but especially here in Norway so I got a lot of respect for anyone who does. But after having that discussion for a while, I just asked him if those obstacles are too large, or if he'd want to start working towards baptism, and he replied and said he wants to start working towards it! He sighed for a second and was like, "Well, looks like I'm going to need to pick up my Book of Mormon again"😂🙌. He said that he wants to start meeting with us every week again so I am super excited to start working with him.

-Earlier in the week we had some of the Elders from Alta (northernmost area) with us for a day in between moves to new areas, and one of them talked to a dude on the bus and got his number. He ended up coming to church on Sunday and sat through both hours. Afterwards he was telling me he thought it was so interesting that we have an hour of church where we are able to openly discuss as he has never seen that before. I'm not sure if he was hating on the idea of it or liking it, but he was saying it was interesting😂. I told him as missionaries we meet up with people and teach them more about Jesus Christ and therefore the Book of Mormon, and asked if he wanted to meet up sometime. He said he would love to, and he wanted to start meeting 2 times every week. When I told him we'd be out of town for a few days this week, he replied that it was okay and that we could get back on schedule with meeting 2 times a week next week. Pretty crazy for the first time meeting someone. We did try texting him yesterday and today and he hasn't replied, so I'm getting a little worried, but hoping he replies. If he does that would be a pretty significant miracle, especially this early in the transfer. 

In our area, we have a call every week with some members that live in our branch (congregation) but live very far away, discussing the Come Follow Me studies for the week. One of them is basically as close to a scriptoral scholar you can get without actually being one, so he always has a lot of really good insights for us. Despite that, when discussing the chapters this week, we spent basically the entire hour discussing one simple theme, which was esentially just giving to those that are less fortunate and focusing on that rather than the material things in life. We were discussing it from the Book of Mormon (Alma 5:53-55), but when we were reading it I thought of some verses I had read earlier in the week in Matthew 6:
25 Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on. Is not the life more than meat, and the body than raiment?
(also 31-34)
The first and last line in this verse is powerful to me. I think if we read "Take no thought for your life" with the wrong mindset or context we could be easily confused, but the idea to not think about yourself and your own life is something that I think we could all be a little better at. Obviously it is human nature for us to be concerned about our own needs and wants, but looking outwards and caring about the needs of others is always what Christ would want of us and will always bring us more joy in our lives. I love the promise given a few verses later that "all these things shall be added unto you" as you strive to focus more on the things of God than physical wants or even needs. It's a simple principle, but once again I think it's something that we can all always be working and something that will always make us happier, as well as everyone around us :).

Lyric: "But what's really important is such a silly distortion"
-Cordae

Week 43

Friday, June 21, 2024



What's good,

Another week that was super out of the ordinary. The last like month or so has all been very chaotic and we have not had many days that are our average missionary work days. Which has been a good change of pace, but worries me a little bit for when everything slows down and goes back to normal.

We were down in Oslo (capital) for Zone conference for most of the first part of the week. Because we have to fly for zone conferences in the current zone I'm in, anytime we have zone conference it is always at least a few days away from our area. Which is always a good break from regular day to day. The zone conference was really good, probably one of my favorites of my mission so far, but not really anything that is worth writing. I did get the chance to play some basketball with my mission president on Thursday morning which was fun. I joked to him a couple months ago that we needed to play basketball together sometime before he leaves, and since then he has been determined to actually make it happen. He leaves in less than a month, so I was glad to get to do it. He is literally 65 but was still playing perfectly fine with all us missionaries. He, and everyone else that played, woke up earlier than normal to go over and play, so I was very grateful to get to play, even though I didn't play very good🙃.

The two days that we were actually in our area this week were pretty uneventful, outside of having a really long lesson with our friend Daniel preparing him for his baptism this week. It was close to 3 hours long, definitely the longest lesson of my mission. It probably seems like we are just doing a lot of cramming to get him baptized this week, which to a certain extent, we are, but he is going to be traveling back to the states for the summer and really wants to get baptized before he leaves. I think I've mentioned before, but he literally has no knowledge at all of God or just how religion works in general, so that is the main reason all of our lessons with him have been really long. We've had to explain everything from scratch and in as much detail as possible without making it too much. It's crazy to me how quick the process has been teaching him up to his baptism, but it has been really enjoyable and one of the overall highlights of my mission for sure. As I've said, he's a pretty goofy guy which makes for a lot of funny lines and moments. I can only think of 2 this week that were funny, at least in the moment. The first was when we were going through some of the questions with him for the baptismal interview. I told him that I would just read through all of them first, that he didn't need to answer, and then we could discuss them after. I was reading through and when I read the question that asks if you've ever committed a serious crime (you can still get baptized if you have) he just interrupted me and said "ABsolutely not; never in my life"😂😂. Me and my comp got a good chuckle out of that one. The other was yesterday after his baptismal interview was done. He just turned to us and said, "wait.. so do you guys think the fjord is going to be cold?". He was the one who decided he wanted to get baptized in the fjord (the ocean), so I'm not sure why it is just processing to him now that it's going to be cold😂😂. We have taught him about baptism and that we do it by immersion multiple times, but he still asked, "I don't have to go like all the way under the water, right?". Right now it's supposed to rain on Thursday so I hope we get a few minutes of sun for it or it's going to be even more cold for him haha.

Early saturday morning we got on a boat to travel down to a city called Harstad that is about 3 hours south of us for our mission conference. It is basically just a conference for all of the members who live in the north of Norway, kinda like a stake conference, but since there isn't a stake in the north it's just called mission conference. On Saturday afternoon we had an activity with all of the youth, where we just went to a beach and did some weird relay race type of thing where we had different "tasks" we had to complete. Was honestly really dumb but it was fun to be with and meet a lot of the youth. Our area does not have any youth so all the youth there I had not met before which was fun. We then had meetings both Saturday night and Sunday morning which were both good. Honestly the main highlight was meeting this 60 year old guy who lives with the missionaries that are north of us, who has some sort of special needs, not sure what. Nothing I can say to describe him does him justice but he is just a legend. Overall the conference just a had a really cool spirit and feeling of unity. It was just powerful, at least to me, to have all of these super faithful members in all of these tiny branches in the North of Norway gathered together. 

There were a few different experiences/ moments this week that made me think a lot about gratitude and how important that is for us in our lives, and more specifically for the enjoyment of our lives. The first was from an interview I was listening to of a member of the church that grew up in Haiti. His overall perspective on life was really interesting to me as well as powerful. Here's a quote from the video:
"We live day by day...whatever happens, it happens. When things go bad in Haiti, everyone always says we leave it in God's hands...I enjoy my bad days just as much as my good days. My bad days are what makes things go slower. I live a longer life, and kinda just enjoy the little things more. Makes me appreciate what we have more...Theres nothing you can do, you just gotta leave it in God's hands; gotta pray,  and just enjoy that bad day..You just gotta keep going...When you having fun, life goes by faster, but when you having a boring day, it goes by a little slower, you get to enjoy that moment a little bit more."
I'm not sure why, but his perspective really resonated with me. Obviously it's a lot easier said than done, but his mindset on life is something that I think could help anyone feel more joy. It hasn't really applied to me recently because our last few weeks have been super busy, but the times when I have felt frustrated in the last few days I have tried to take a second mentally to try and think of the little things that I've had the opportunity to do so far in the day and let that make me happy. During zone conference there were also 2 presentations/talks that talked about gratitude that also brought that to the front of my mind. One was from my current companion, and one from one of my previous companions. My current companion did a whole presentation on gratitude and shared the correlation between gratitude and joy, and how powerful it is if you can learn to control your mindset. My former companion gave his departing testimony in zone conference, and mentioned that one of the biggest things that he learned on his mission is that joy comes through gratitude. There's not much else for me to personally add, besides that I agree and I think it's something we can all try harder to work at. I can't talk about this and not mention Sister Purcell, the senior sister I served with for 6 months in my first area (basically an additional grandma 🙂). Everytime she has written me a letter, email, or given me any sort of advice, she has mentioned to remember to be grateful, to choose to be grateful and receive the joy that comes from that. My former companion when talking about that in his testimony mentioned her as well, as a perfect example of choosing to be joyful and grateful. I think we can all take her advice, and in turn be a little bit more like her😁.

Lyric-
"Life, I be takin for granted, capture the moments, the Canon" 
-Saba

Week 41

Tuesday, June 4, 2024